One thing that continues to frustrate me is women playing the victim and saying that “he just used me for sex.” The reason this frustrates me is that the sex was consensual, and if you didnt want to do it, then you wouldn’t have done it. I suspect that these women were trying to use sex as a tool to rope these men into commitment, and that the guys just werent having any of that. No woman who uses sex as a tool (to rope a man in for example) or uses sex as a weapon (a woman who deprives her man of sex to get what she wants) is a woman to whom you should commit. These woman arent getting used, its just that their manipulative plan to make a man commit backfired on them. The guys who take these women up on their offers of sex are responding appropriately by taking the bait and leaving the hook behind.