My post today is about testosterone. Testosterone is the “male” hormone, and it’s what makes a man a man (so to speak). In a fight between equally trained men, the winner will almost always be the one with more testosterone. Many of the behaviors that are identified as being “alpha” are properties of high testosterone levels. Even male attractiveness is somewhat determined by a man’s prenatal testosterone levels. It also happens to be the hormone that regulates sex drive in both sexes. For better or worse men have about 17 to 20 times (average) more testosterone than women. So the next time someone tells you “women want sex just as much or more than men do”, its a blatant lie. Men will always want it more, like 20 times more. The point of all this is to say that testosterone is something very defining of masculinity as a whole. In todays world, many guys live with poor diets and little exercise, which are two things that will make your testosterone levels, your masculinity, and your happiness suffer. My first and best suggestion to fix this problem is to WORK OUT. Working out vigorously will naturally increase your testosterone levels. Skinny guys will get hungry, eat more, and become more muscular. Fat guys will trim down, tone up, and actually experience a DECREASE in appetite. Its almost as if we were meant to be physically active, like we had to be able to hunt, and fight to survive. Oh thats right we did, and guess who got the hottest chicks back then? The guys who were most fit to hunt and war, the guys who had the most testosterone, the guys who were fit. Hit the gym!
One thing that continues to frustrate me is women playing the victim and saying that “he just used me for sex.” The reason this frustrates me is that the sex was consensual, and if you didnt want to do it, then you wouldn’t have done it. I suspect that these women were trying to use sex as a tool to rope these men into commitment, and that the guys just werent having any of that. No woman who uses sex as a tool (to rope a man in for example) or uses sex as a weapon (a woman who deprives her man of sex to get what she wants) is a woman to whom you should commit. These woman arent getting used, its just that their manipulative plan to make a man commit backfired on them. The guys who take these women up on their offers of sex are responding appropriately by taking the bait and leaving the hook behind.
For those of you who dont know, im about to tell you why nice guys finish last. Is it because they arent nice enough? No. Is it because they dont try hard enough to impress women? No. Is it because they worship women, give them what they dont deserve, and insist on taking submitting and qualifying to these women? Bingo. Nice guys finish last simply because they dont respect (or even love) themselves enough to get a remote ounce of respect from a woman. These guys take endless shit from women thinking that it will win her favor (and eventually her vagina). The truth is that when you allow youself to be used by a woman that same woman loses all respect for you, and with that loss of respect comes a complete loss of attraction. Dont worry though, it gets worse. Women dont just keep the tale of your self deprications to themselves, they also tell their friends. So when one woman loses respect and therefore attraction to you, it spreads like a plague (negative social proof). Women want to know that the man they may choose can stand up to her, because if he cant do that, how will he stand up for her and their theoretical children? When it comes to women, putting them in their place will ALWAYS get you farther than putting them on a pedestal.
It was a short few months ago that I decided to “take the red pill”. What i mean by that is i became enlightened to the ugly truths about women: solipsism, hypergamy, and the seemingly ridiculous things that women do because of those things. However, taking the red pill isnt just hearing about these things, its also accepting them as a very real part of our reality, and believe me, they are VERY real. I learned that being a “nice guy” (a chump) was the least attractive thing you can be to a woman, and if you dont have her attraction, you have nothing of value with her. My ideas of women changed, my personality changed, i started working out and lost a lot of weight, all of which are good things and progress certainly, but im still no Don Juan. You may ask, “where is the hope then? Why make all these changes if they arent helping?” Thats the thing, these changes ARE helping, but it doesnt happen overnight. I may not pull all kinds of tail like the great pickup artists, but ive come a long way from hopeless loser. Learning Game and becoming a man is ultimately, a process.
Welcome to Alpha Mission. If you didnt know this is a blog supporting positive masculinity. This blog is to help men be Men, not women with beards and not large hairy children. Despite what you may have been led to believe, men and women are not the same minus genetalia. Men and women are very different and they should be. If youve ever been hurt by a woman, and not understood, if you said to yourself, “Why would she do this to me?”, this blog is for you. Women operate on a different set of rules than men, and the sooner and more thoroughly you understand this, the happier you will be. Its not just a blog, its a mission.